A different kind of courage
Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear.
When I think about what’s holding me back from whole-heartedly pursuing new business, I know it’s not lack of ambition, or skill, or experience. It’s something more elusive and primal. It’s fear... a specialized kind of fear that doesn't back down in the face of solid testimonials, or skill mastery certificates.
Mostly, my fear stays tucked out of site; I know it's there, but no one else seems to be aware of it... until it's time to talk about myself and my work, my successes and challenges. That's when fear raises its ugly head, sneering when I attempt to reach out to a stranger at a networking event... fear tells me to just be quiet, that clearly I don't belong here. After all, everyone around me is chatting away with ease! I'm the only one standing in a corner holding the same tiny plate of cheese squares that I grabbed an hour ago.
And so, in honor of the Year of the Tiger, my resolution this year is to stand up to fear. I'll still feel it, I know, but I resolve to move ahead and take a chance on talking to a stranger despite that fear. So if you see someone like me timidly approaching you at a networking event, I hope you'll offer me a welcoming smile and listen to a minute or so of my babble. I promise, I'll do the same for you.





